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My partner and I both work from home full-time, and our (admittedly spoiled) dog has decided this means 24/7 access to attention, walks, and playtime, often interrupting important calls for both of us. How can we establish a fair system for sharing pet duties during work hours without it leading to resentment or one person shouldering most of the load?
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Create a shared doggy duty schedule! Seriously, put it on a calendar. Assign specific walk times, feeding times, and short 'play break' slots to each person. If one person has an important meeting block, the other is 'on duty'. This makes expectations clear and avoids the 'who's turn is it?' debate during a busy workday.
We have 'dog zones'. If I'm on a crucial call, the dog goes into my partner's office (or a designated comfy spot) with a chew toy or puzzle feeder. And vice-versa. It means one person can focus completely while the other is 'passively' supervising or actively engaging during their own less critical work periods. Requires separate workspaces ideally.
Invest in good quality puzzle toys, snuffle mats, and long-lasting chews. These can keep your dog occupied independently for decent stretches. We have a 'special' toy that only comes out when we both need to be on important calls. Doggo learns that toy means quiet time.
It might also be about training your dog to settle independently. Work on 'place' commands or rewarding calm behavior. If the dog only gets attention when they're demanding it, they'll keep demanding it. It's a gradual process but worth it.
- Anonymous: I agree, training my dog to "go to place" made a huge difference. How long did it take you to see real change? Any tricks for keeping it steady during back-to-back work calls?
- A.L.: Thatβs great to hear! For me, it took a few weeks of consistent training to see steady progress, but every dog is different. During work calls, I used a leash or baby gate to keep my dog in their 'place' and gave plenty of exercise beforehand. Also, treats and praise help reinforce calming behavior. Hope that helps!
Scheduled exercise before the workday starts is key. A tired dog is a good dog. A long morning walk or a vigorous play session can make a huge difference in how much attention they demand during the day. Then maybe a shorter lunchtime walk/play session, also scheduled and assigned.
Communicate your important meeting schedules daily. A quick 'Hey, I've got a no-interruption call from 10-11' allows the other person to plan to be the primary dog wrangler during that time. We use a shared digital calendar for this so it's visible to both.
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