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After a public mistake I made increased a coworker’s workload and undermined their credibility, what practical steps can I take to rebuild trust and repair the professional relationship? Should I apologize privately, publicly, or both; offer tangible restitution or take on corrective work; involve our manager; or propose a joint plan to fix the impact? What actions and timeline realistically demonstrate accountability without making the situation worse for either of us, and how do I avoid repeating the error while preserving my career reputation?
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Make fixing this about the coworker first. Begin with a sincere private apology within 24- 48 hours, clear about what you did and why it won’t happen again. Then acknowledge the impact publicly in the same forum where the mistake happened, brief and factual. Offer tangible restitution by taking on the corrective work and proposing a joint plan with clear tasks and deadlines. If the scope affects deliverables or credibility, loop in your manager for support, not to deflect blame. Set short check-ins for 4 to 6 weeks and share progress. Do a root cause fix: checklist, peer review, automation or training. Small consistent actions rebuild trust. Slow and steady. Let results speak.
Start with a private, sincere apology that owns the mistake without excuses. Say what happened, acknowledge the extra work and credibility hit and ask how they'd like you to make it right. Then offer a brief public correction only if they want it or if the record needs fixing.
Volunteer to take specific corrective tasks and propose a joint plan with clear steps and deadlines. Loop in your manager only if the scope requires it or if your co worker agrees. Do a quick root cause check, add safeguards like checklists, peer reviews and reminders, and send short status updates for a few weeks. Be consistent. Small reliable actions rebuild trust faster than big promises.
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