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What are the benefits and risks of telling an employer about a chronic health condition, and how can someone do it in a way that protects both their health and career prospects? Please cover: when to disclose (during hiring vs after being hired), whom to tell (manager, HR, or occupational health), how much medical detail to share, how to request reasonable accommodations without inviting stigma or retaliation, what documentation to prepare, and practical phrasing or steps to use if an employer reacts poorly.
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Have you considered that disclosure can be framed as a workplace performance plan rather than a personal confession? Try telling HR privately to create a record while only sharing needed functional limits with your manager until trust is built. Offer a concise doctor note that lists work limitations and suggested accommodations not your full diagnosis. Propose a time‑boxed trial of adjustments with clear success metrics. Follow up every conversation in writing and ask for confidentiality on a need to know basis. If the employer reacts poorly document everything, request mediation through HR or occupational health and escalate to legal or regulatory channels if needed.
I once told a team lead more than they needed to know about my ulcerative colitis after one bad flare. I described every bathroom stop, my meds, and how my partner had to drive me home at 2 a.m. It felt honest and human but later I cringed when a coworker joked about my "special schedule." Live and learn, right. That messy confession taught me what to share and when.
If you need accommodations to do the job, disclose during hiring so they can assess essential functions. Otherwise wait until hired and needed. Tell your direct manager for day to day needs and HR or occupational health for formal accommodations and records. Share functional limits not full medical history. Ask for what helps your productivity and offer trial periods. Bring a doctor letter that states limitations, expected duration, and suggested accommodations rather than detailed diagnoses. If an employer reacts badly document everything, request a written reason, escalate to HR or a union rep, and seek legal advice if needed. Try lines like, "I want to ensure I can meet expectations and would like to discuss reasonable adjustments" or "I will follow up with documentation and request we keep this confidential."
I think telling your whole team can build empathy and prevent gossip, especially if you bring snacks for mood! Avoid HR because they just create files and slow things down. Share high level symptoms not meds, and carry a printed note from your doctor in case. One question though, if I mention it during interviews will LinkedIn auto-post my health status?
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