Can remote work mess with your mental health over time?

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I have been remote for 2 years, and I’m starting to feel isolated, even with video calls. It’s like I’m missing real human connection, and it’s affecting my mood. Does long-term remote work have mental health risks? How do you cope with the loneliness?

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Hunter Hamilton 27 May 2025

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Treat remote work as chance to trade quantity for quality: schedule one meaningful in-person social weekly, start a small local class you teach, wear "work clothes" to switch modes
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Maya W. 29 Mar 2025

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Remote work can definately hit your mental health. I felt the same after a year—calls aren’t enough. I started coworking at a local café twice a week, just to be around people. Also, I joined an online book club, which sounds cheesy but helps. Schedule non-work chats with colleagues too. It’s not perfect, but it keeps the loneliness at bay.
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Dr. Lillian Hayes 31 Mar 2025

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Prolonged remote work may indeed exacerbate feelings of isolation, potentially contributing to anxiety or depression. To mitigate this, establish boundaries between work and personal life, such as designated workspaces and fixed hours. Engage in external social activities, like community groups or fitness classes. Virtual interactions, while valuable, cannot fully replicate in-person connection. Prioritize self-care and seek professional support if needed.
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Finn D. 30 Mar 2025

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loneliness is real, mate. i’m remote 3 years now, and it creeps up.my fix is routine: morning walks, no exceptions, and I call a friend every Friday. also, I got a dog—best coworker ever. If your company offers mental health support, use it. Therapy’s a game-changer. Oh, and turn off Slack after hours, or it’ll eat your soul 😅
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Logan Morris 31 Mar 2025

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Isn’t it fascinating how the very thing meant to free us can sometimes trap us in loops of feeling cut off? Maybe the question isn't just about remote work messing with mental health, but what kind of ‘connection’ really feeds our souls when everything’s pixelated and scheduled. Could it be that we're craving something deeper than mere interaction—a shared spontaneity or unpredictable buzz you get from a bustling office or town square? Have you ever thought about blending remote work with bursts of immersive real-world activities that aren’t just social but creatively engaging? Sometimes shaking up the usual grind by learning a hands-on craft or volunteering can reboot your sense of purpose more than another Zoom call. What if loneliness is less about being alone and more about missing those sparks that make life gritty and raw?
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Anonymous 30 Jul 2025

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Yes, long-term remote work can erode social instincts. Try treating social needs like a habit to be trained, not a one-off fix. Start a 30 day experiment where you log one tiny social action and a mood score each day. Patterns emerge fast and make choices feel less vague.
Volunteer a few hours monthly or teach a short local workshop. Those contexts create natural, low-pressure connections and often lead to repeat meetups. If your team is open, set optional "office hours" video drop-ins for casual banter. Finally, budget social energy like money: if big outings drain you, spend time on several small, reliable interactions instead.
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Caleb Ortiz 2 Apr 2025

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It can mess with you, no lie.I got super down last year, felt like a robot just clicking keys. What helped was setting up a co-working day with a friend who’s also remote—we just sit on Zoom and work quietly, like a fake office. Also, I started therapy online, which was weird at first but really helped me sort out the isolation vibes.
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J. C. 2 May 2025

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you're conflating isolation (an objective lack of contact) with loneliness (the subjective feeling). Long-term remote work can raise risk for loneliness, low mood, anxiety and burnout. Try scheduling regular non-work social activities, joining coworking spaces or local meetups, and creating a predictable routine with clear work/home boundaries. Also prioritize movement, sunlight and brief in-person contact. If mood changes persist, consult a GP or mental-health professional.
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Zoe Parker 1 Apr 2025

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Ugh, I hear ya. Remote work’s great until you realize you haven’t left the house in days. I try to mix it up—work from a library sometimes, or even a park with wifi. Also, I started a virtual game night with my team, like trivia on Zoom. It’s kinda silly but makes us laugh and feel closer. Small stuff adds up
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- Anonymous: Isn't it strange how the tiniest changes, like swapping your usual nook for a park bench, can shake up our brain fog? Makes you wonder if we're wired to crave more than just screens and silent rooms for that spark of joy. What’s your go-to hack when the walls start closing in?
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  Zoe Parker: Totally! When the walls start closing in, my go-to hack is a quick movement break—like a 10-minute walk or some stretching near a window. Fresh air and a change of scenery really reboot my brain. Sometimes just switching from screen to a paper notebook helps too. Little shifts make a big difference for sure.
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Cassandra Boyd 26 Jun 2025

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Totally relate. One weird trick I tried was scheduling a fake commute with upbeat music and dressing like I was leaving the house. It made my brain treat the day as more social, probably placebo but weirdly helpful. I also chat with my houseplants during breaks. Do you mean fully remote from everyone or just coworkers?
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Accepted Answer · 2025-07-02T00:18:11+00:00

Absolutely, long-term remote work can impact mental health, especially feelings of isolation. It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget the value of face-to-face interactions. I remember when I worked from home for a stretch; it was great at first! I enjoyed the flexibility, but over time, all those Zoom calls couldn’t replace the spontaneous chats by the coffee machine.

To cope with loneliness, I found that setting a routine helped. I started scheduling regular virtual coffee breaks with colleagues—just to chat about non-work stuff. Also, maybe consider joining a local group or class, even if it’s online. I once joined a cooking class that turned into a little community, and it was a great way to meet new people and share experiences.

It’s all about finding ways to connect, whether it’s with coworkers or new friends. Remember, you’re not alone in feeling this way; many others are navigating the same challenges.