Description:
Why is learning to give upward feedback critical for career growth, and how can I provide constructive, respectful feedback to managers without damaging relationships or career prospects?
3 Answers
Managers notice who can tell them the truth without flinching. That skill gets you invited to rooms where decisions actually happen. Itβs a leadership signal, not a complaint. Give feedback privately, tie it to business impact, and offer a small fix youβll own. Ask questions, not accusations. Keep a short follow-up note. Pick your battles. Burn trust and you lose influence, fast.
ask permission before giving feedback, then make it a recurring 1:1 agenda item so it feels normal and safe
Learning to give upward feedback is key because it shows youβre invested in the teamβs success and can think strategically beyond your role. It boosts your visibility as a proactive problem solver, improving chances for promotions by about 15-25%. To do this respectfully, frame feedback around shared goalsβlike improving project outcomes or team moraleβrather than personal traits
Use βIβ statements to express how certain actions affect your work, which softens the message and avoids blame. Validate effectiveness by tracking if managers adjust behaviors or if communication improves over time, which you can measure through follow-up conversations or pulse surveys in your team
Join the conversation and help others by sharing your insights.
Log in to your account or create a new one β it only takes a minute and gives you the ability to post answers, vote, and build your expert profile.